More Alike Than Different
Jamie hugs are the BEST hugs!
More Alike Than Different By
Chelsea
Auburn,
Rochester,
NY
There is not one distinct moment that I can remember being told that my brother was special. We grew up like any typical brother and sister duo. We sang and danced together to our favorite songs from Disney movies. We ran through the sprinkler in our backyard on warm summer days. We knew when the other was upset and were always prepared with a substantial amount of tissues. We protected each other like siblings do and loved each other unconditionally. When I became old enough to understand what Down syndrome was – it only made me more grateful for the precious angel that is my brother Jamie. There is no person in this world who can put a smile on my face faster than he can. He sees the good in everyone and is the most loving individual I will ever have the pleasure of knowing. Jamie inspires me to be a better person – to be the best version of myself that I can be. He always has a way of putting things into perspective. I remember when I was younger there were a few instances in which I found myself crying to my mom after getting in a fight with a friend. Jamie would come into my room with a pile of tissues for me, put his hand on my shoulder and say, “Don’t cry, Chelsea-bug, let me see your smile!” ‘Chelsea-bug’ was an affectionate nickname that my family had given me growing up. Jamie still calls me Chelsea-bug to this day. Jamie has taught me so many lessons in my 23 years of life. One of the first and most important lessons Jamie taught me was patience. As I mentioned earlier, we grew up like typical brothers and sisters do. We played together a lot and my five-year-old self would often get frustrated when Jamie couldn’t keep up. Eventually he taught me that everyone has their own way of doing things and to be patient or offer help when needed. Jamie also taught me the importance of awareness and acceptance. I remember being very aware of people staring because Jamie looked “different” or acted “different.” It bothered me and still does to a certain extent today. But I have learned that anyone who could possibly judge someone as remarkable as my brother is simply ignorant. Jamie is the epitome of a gentle soul. Kindness and love radiate from him everywhere he goes. I consider myself truly blessed to have him as a brother. He has taught me so much and inspired me to be a better person every day. I am grateful for every hug, every dance and every tissue! Jamie is my brother and best friend and we are more alike than different.